If you had been on the lookout for sex tips that could foster a healthier and more exciting sex life for you and your partner, you are in the right place! Whether you’re completely new to sex or looking for novel ideas to spruce up your sex life with your partner, we got you the most googled questions answered by the porn star here! From how to vocalize your desires and pleasure in the bedroom, to the importance of complimenting, foreplay ideas and playing tease – get set to take notes for an exciting and an accelerated sex life with your partner.
Sex tips for men
1. This should be automatic – take pleasure in bringing her pleasure
Be vocal and ask her what you can do to turn her on and heighten her arousal. Tell her how much it turns you on to hear her groan. Follow her lead, sometimes you have to take a step back and let her show you what to do and where to do it. There’s nothing sexier than knowing your partner is genuinely committed to blowing your mind.
2. Compliment her
Some sweet words go a long way! What woman doesn’t feel a little insecure about parts of her body? We have these wildly insane standards we place on ourselves for how a woman should look thanks to overly photoshopped magazine covers and unrealistic social media images. A man isn’t responsible for a woman’s self-confidence, but you can significantly help her feel more confident in the moment. A confident woman in bed is unstoppable!
3. Foreplay
No matter how many years you’ve been with her, foreplay is so crucial to stronger orgasms and a better overall sexual experience! It builds excitement and releases ecstasy!
4. Use lubricant
Many men think that if a woman isn’t soaking wet down there then she isn’t in it which is totally false. Sometimes certain times of the month with our hormones, stress or even fatigue – can make it hard for a woman to get physically aroused even though they are mentally super turned on and ready to go. The lubricant is amazing and totally normal to use.
Sex tips for women
1. Be open to trying new things
Variety is what keeps our sex lives spicy, exciting, fulfilled and fun! Bringing variation to your sex life is one of the most useful sex tips for women. It is important to feel comfortable with whatever new thing you are trying of course but keep in mind that the best sex happens when two people are in tune with each other’s sexual wants and needs.
2. Use toys
A lot of women I speak with are super bashful about their sex toys and masturbate privately. Bring your man in on the action! You know how good it makes you feel, show him. Let him watch you please yourself and let him please you during the actual deed (prepare to have your mind blown!)
3. Tell him when he is turning you on
Be vocal! Speak up when he is doing something to make you feel good and tell him that you want more. Groan, grunt, scream! Quiet sex all the time is boring and you don’t want to leave a question mark on your man’s head on whether you are really enjoying it or just going through the motions.
4. Tease him
As much as he wants you to just rip off his clothes, make him beg for it. Do a sexy striptease, kiss his thighs, do whatever you have to do until he can’t take it anymore. Dominate him. Now I don’t necessarily mean break out the latex and whips (unless you’re into that kinda thing, which I am, LOL!) Take control of him. When you’re on top, try putting his hands behind his back and you totally own the position and embrace being in utter control.
These sex tips for men and women should help you up your sex game and amp up the action between the sheets!